They are little monster

Kids, can sometimes be such an angel or oh…that little devil. Either way we love them dearly. Pay attention to what we say or what our faces say when they did something that we don’t like. For example, we already going to burst with the stiff look that we want to get angry but we try to hold it. Well, you know what they saw that too. And at the very early age, yes….guilt comes very soon and very deep. So, try not to go bursting when you are angry because our beloved children already feel guilty.

Looking in the mirror

Children is our reflection, they are a little us. An abusive father tends to produce an abusive children when they are grow up. An anorexia girl is possibly having an anorexia mom, well…at least mother who is not satisfied with her appearance. So, when you yourself have an unexplainable attitude that you are aware that it is bad. Then you need to look deep into your past and find that missing chapter that maybe you have it from your parents, despite that your deep love for them. Because finding out what is your flues is and important info, because you can stop the cycle and prevent the same thing to your kids

What we do, our kids do it too.

It is important to remember that, what we think is an adult thought or conversation is really what the kids pick up. They are sponge and the filter to distinguish between oh this is for adult and oh this is for me. Doesn’t imply. That is probable why kids these days grow up fast and tend to have mature behavior regardless to their age. This we must pay attention to. Get into the children world and eyes, and its ok to act foolish and childish in front of your kids.

Inside our kids

Children development begins in such an early age, that what we reflect in everyday live is what they consume and stay in their memory. They are just like sponge, absorb everything and except anything. Do you ever realize that a simple face gesture can make a child feel so happy and so sad. We as adult tend to caught up with our daily life and most of the time feels tired and weary. We tend to bring those looks to our house. Let say you come into the room, and there were your kids. They are playing or just doing they stuff. They we come along with that tired and don’t speak to me look. It bound to make them sad, or just it-not-the-time-to-talk thought. So think about what your faces will affect our kids in the future, because it says a lot